For many seniors, moving is a big decision that can be dependent upon a lot of factors. A lot of seniors don’t have the choice when moving because they are unable to stay in their homes on their own, while some seniors choose to downsize or move into senior care facilities so that they have extra care options available to them. For some seniors, the choice of moving is mostly about where they are moving. A lot of seniors will choose to move closer to their relatives for a multitude of reasons. This could be to spend more time with children or grandchildren, to have family available to help care for you as you age or even to help care for your family. No matter the reason, it is important to think through the effects this move will have on you and your family.
Expectations and Commitments
If you are moving to be closer to family on the pretense that you will be helping to watch grandchildren, or that your children will be helping to care for you, it is important to have open and honest conversations about this ahead of time. During these conversations, each party can express what they expect the situation to be like, so that no one feels they are being taken advantage of later. It is better to have an idea going in what any future commitments each party will have before you make the big move. Once everyone is on the same page, the move and any changes incurred by it will be acknowledged and addressed.
It is hard to leave the place you live because you have ties to the community and any friends you may have there. It is important when moving to be closer to your family that you aren’t moving just for them. Although it makes sense for your family to be a large part of why you move, you should have other things in your life in your new home. Perhaps this includes joining a club, taking a class or volunteering. Making new friends and connections in your new home is important because you don’t want there to be any resentment towards family members. The decision should be agreed upon by both parties and should be based on a mutually beneficial relationship.
Changes and Support Systems
Moving to a new city is hard for anyone, but for seniors it can be especially difficult because they have given up their support systems and roots at home. It is important when considering moving to be with loved ones that you have a good support system in place to deal with all the changes that come with moving into a new home in a new place. As family members, it is important to help make the move as easy as possible, trying to keep a semblance of routine and help your senior loved one to adjust to the changes that come with a new home in a new place.